Mrs Sandy lived at 395 High Street, a site now occupied by a real estate agency, in a big old white house. The house had a large expanse of verandah, smothered in blue wisteria, and it fronted the street. Mrs Sandy, crippled with arthritis, would sit each day in her chair on the verandah and watch the town pass by.
Next door to the house was a small wooden building that served the town firstly as a lolly shop and then as a dressmaker’s shop. I believe that both the house and the shop were part of the same property.
Aunty Priddle’s lolly shop
May Sandy was the niece (or possibly the adopted daughter) of Louisa Priddle who was known universally to Penrith residents as Aunty Priddle. I don’t recall Aunty Priddle but Mrs Sandy and others used to tell me stories about her. Aunty Priddle was born in Picton but lived in Penrith for most of her adult life. Her husband, John, owned a livery stable on the corner of Henry and Station Streets and opened a lolly shop next door for Mrs Priddle to run. She also sold cakes, drinks and tobacco products.
When John Priddle died suddenly, Aunty Priddle continued to run both businesses for a while but in 1908 sold out to Nelson Price, who was the nephew of John Price, the founder of John Price and Son, funeral directors. Nelson continued to work the livery stable until he bought the funeral business from John Price’s widow and eventually moved the funeral parlour to the Priddle site from its original site in High Street opposite the Post Office just down from the picture show.

After she sold to Nelson Price, Mrs Priddle bought the property in High Street from John Doyle, the licensee of the Federal Hotel, and opened another lolly shop where she was helped by May. She and the Sandys lived in the house next to the lolly shop.
Aunty Priddle died in 1943, a well known and well-loved citizen of Penrith. She had the lolly shop on the High Street site for over 30 years so it must have been a landmark. Mrs Priddle was 81 when she died and the town gave her a huge funeral.
A sporting side note
Mrs Priddle’ brother in law and sister were Richard and Nell Benaud who had been Penrith residents before moving to Coraki. They were the grandparents of Richie Benaud, the great Australian cricketer and even more renowned cricket commentator. The Benauds moved back to Penrith to help out and look after Mrs Sandy and we knew them as Uncle Dick and Aunty Nell. Dick Benaud, in his earlier stint in Penrith, had been the first president of the Penrith Show Society.
Now Richie Benaud was born in Penrith and was captain of the Australian cricket team from 1958 to 1964. The great rugby league player, Ken Kearney, was also born in Penrith and was captain of the Australian Rugby League team in 1956-1957.
Although their captaincies did not quite coincide, it was close enough. Penrith boys were captains of two of our premier national sporting teams. Not bad for a small country town.
The mystery of Mrs Sandy’s name
I was always confused about what Mrs Sandy’s name actually was. We knew her as Mrs Sandy but others called her or referred to her variously as May (fair enough, that was her given name), Sandy, Mrs Boston or Sandy Boston. And her son was Jack Sandy.
The story was that she was born May Rowe, married a Mr Ern Sandy (actually Dagmar-Sandy) who died at an early age and she then remarried a man called George Boston who also died after a few years of marriage. She had no luck with her husbands.
Anyhow, Mrs Sandy, which is what I will call her, ran the lolly shop for a while until the arthritis in her fingers got too bad and the lolly shop was taken over by her daughter in law Freda Sandy,. Freda was a first-class seamstress and she made dresses to order and mended garments in what had been the lolly shop.
Mrs Sandy had been very active in community affairs before the arthritis got her. She and Essie Price, the sister in law of Nelson Price (Penrith was a small community) headed a community drive to raise money to pay for improvements to Memory Park. These two ladies worked tirelessly for charities and walked the town from Mrs Sandy’s house to Emu Plains every second Thursday for over a year knocking on doors to collect money to fund an operating theatre at the hospital.
After she became crippled with arthritis, Mrs Sandy would sit each day on her verandah, talking to the many people she knew who were passing by and doing her needlework with her dog at her feet and George the Cocky in his cage beside her. It was amazing to see her old twisted hands fly across the needlework. I often used to visit Mrs Sandy and listen to her stories about Penrith in earlier days.
Some of the less polite youths in the town would taunt her as they walked past and refer to her as a witch. Many of those same youths would today be old men with joint pains and I bet that their minds sometimes stray back to those days and they regret that they found Mrs Sandy’s plight so funny.
George the Cocky
Mrs Sandy owned a ratty little dog called Monty and a cocky named George. George was a Corella Cockatoo and was the most vicious and evil creature that ever walked this earth. I know whereof I speak because Mrs Sandy eventually gave George to our family and he lived with us for many years.

I would like to think that there was some excuse for George’s evil ways because he had spent his entire life locked up in a cage, but I think that he was just mean by nature. Mrs Sandy had bought George from a man who worked in a carnival and had had him for many years before she passed him on to us. We had him for over twenty years so he must have been a ripe old age when he died.
George was an incredible mimic and had alternate voices – you could hear the carnival man in him sometimes when he swore, or the voice of Mrs Sandy, or even my mother. His sweet ingratiating Mrs Sandy -voice when he murmured ‘scratch cocky’ or ‘give George a kiss’ or ‘shake hands with cocky’ tempted many a trusting person to get too close to the cage in order to shake George’s proffered claw. As soon as the trusting soul made contact George would pull in his claw and savage the imprisoned hand quickly and truly with his vicious beak, claiming another victim. If he had been a dog, I am sure that the police would have put him down years before.
All members of my family and several of our friends carry marks of George’s bites because my mother, who had an abiding kindness towards lesser creatures, would sometimes allow George out of his cage to roam around the house freely for exercise. Needless to say, he repaid her kindnesses with an occasional bite. He did have a bit of a limp from an injured leg where my father once had to defend himself from a George attack with a responsive kick.
George also perfected his imitation of a wolf whistle. He would often, while his cage was in the yard – at Mrs Sandy’s or at our place – shriek out his whistle. If this happened, as occasionally it did, when a young lady happened to be walking past, the result was a baleful glare at any unfortunate man who happened to be in the vicinity.
George also had a bad habit of crying out in alarm if I or one of my brothers were trying to sneak into our house late at night without waking the parents. Thanks for that, George.
George died in 1980, mourned only by my mother.
Mrs Sandy leaves Penrith
For reasons that have remained unknown to me, her family persuaded Mrs Sandy to sell her property in 1958 and move away from Penrith. She told me at her farewell party that she did not want to leave Penrith and without the town and her friends she would die.
She was right. Mrs Sandy died less than three months after leaving Penrith.















































